Learning from My Dad

I read in Bringing Up Boys, by Dr. James Dobson, that around age 15 months, babies begin to realize that their moms and dads are two very different creatures. (In some cases, very, very different. ;) ). From that realization until about 23 months, babies make a decision about which parent they want to be like. I'm over-simplifying, but essentially, after noticing there are differences, kids pick one and begin modeling their behavior after that parent.

Dr. Dobson's assertion is that point in their sons' lives is one of the most important times for fathers to be present and involved. I don't agree with everything the good doctor has to say, but this part is grounded in child psychology, so whether or not you buy into his political agenda, it's hard to ignore the importance of this impressionable period.

That being said, I'm really thankful for Shonn's schedule. Beckett will be 15 months next summer, when Shonn will be able to take him fishing and (likely) on the tractor. (If we wait that long.) His schedule will allow him to spend more time with Beckett throughout the year, too, since he isn't coaching. This will be really important, since B will be surrounded by hens all day, every day, between Grammy, Grandma Hild, and Casey. And, bottom line: There is only so much girl-time a guy can take before he just needs to get outside and get dirty.

So I'm thankful for Shonn's schedule, and even more thankful that he is the guy Beckett will be learning from. He's such a great guy. (Although I am sure I'll interject some female points-of-view...Like, "Oh are you sure you want to keep that fish? Poor little thing..." or "I feel so bad for the team that lost...") I guess it's obvious he needs his dad...

He's learning every day!