Sunday, July 31, 2011

Museum

"Please, mom...No More Pictures!"





Beckett's Reaction to the Exhibits... (haha)



Well, we are on our way home. It was a nice little trip.

Let's start our recap with the museum... As you'll recall from my previous post, The Body and the Brain exhibit received some pretty controversial press. I can now see why! Essentially, people who donated their bodies to science were turned into displays for examination - almost works of art. Gunther von Hagen, the person who created the exhibit, is a very unique person. He was masterful in describing, explaining, and showing the human body in its most basic physical state. There were probably 15 complete bodies displayed to show muscles, ligaments, and bones working to perform tasks we do daily. There was a baseball player in full-swing, a ballerina in a pirouette, and even a pair of figure skaters in some type of spin. The complete nervous system had been seperated from everything else; each organ was displayed with an explanation and corresponding healthy/unhealthy examples. The webs of arteries and veins were isolated and displayed in correct position, as if the rest of the body had been made invisible. Never had our existence seemed more miraculous to me; the intricate detail and minute mechanisms that make our most basic functioning possible could never have been happenstance. Truly, our biological design is beyond comprehension.


At that same time, there was something...off-putting about the whole thing. Something uncomfortable. Intensely. As we were looking at the exhibits, it was hard to get past the sense that we were looking at people. I couldn't help but wonder who they had been, and that led me to think about who we really are. Not too far from those thoughts came some questions...Were these 'displays' really people? Or had the things that made them human - made them real - left when they died? We have to be more than the beautifully, miracuously designed tissue and sinew, because underneath it all, we are exactly the same. These exhibits, while all human, couldn't have been the same. Yet you couldn't tell if these people had been American or Armeanian, white or black, rich or poor. Which of them had enjoyed hard rock over classical music? What were their favorite flavors of ice cream? Who were their role models? What did they believe in? Hope for? Dream of? Even though physically, we are designed the same, aren't those unique features what make us human?

An exhibit like this does so much more than teach human anatomy. It forces reflection - if forces people to think about their beliefs. It seems it would be more important for those people among us who have doubts, because it is impossible to leave without recognizing the role and importance of the spirits within our physical beings.

I don't think I would want to go again. Even though it caused some deep thinking, it was also disturbing and kinda creepy. The guy is very passionate about this, too, which is cool, but still kinda creepy... I don't know - some people don't have a hard time with death, but gawking at dead bodies - for whatever reason - is a little morbid for me. But I am glad we went. Shonn and I had some great conversations as we left. Beckett, on the other hand, was asleep. (I can't wait to tell him about his first museum visit. Shonn is quick to point out there were other cool things, including a dinosaur exhibit. But really? What's he going to remember?)

Saturday, July 30, 2011

Guys' Trip

On vacation...
We checked into the room and it took all of five minutes for the guys to get into full-on guy-mode. I whipped them into shape and now we're on our way to the museum.

Mobile blogger!


AND I can even send pictures from the iPad to our blog! I'm even more sold.

Now I just need to work on my photography skills...

Mobile blogging!

No, for real: i'm actually blogging mobile-y. Shonn and I are in the car on our way to....not Fiji, but St. Louis!

I'm so techy that I'm using his 3G iPad to write this. I must admit (Adam), I'm a fan. I thought the touch screen would be harder to use, but I'm typing just like I would on a keyboard... I'm not too shabby, but I'm terrified of the auto-correct feature. I've seen bad, bad examples. Nightmarish actually.

Anyway, I'm really excited about our adventure today. We are going to the Science Museum, which looks Iike it has some really cool exhibits, including this one about the human body. http://www.slsc.org/WhatToDo/BodyWorldstheBrain.aspx
Shonn said it is pretty controversial, and I can definitely see why. I'll post my reactions tonight... I'm not too much of a medical fan (blood makes me faint), so this should be an experience.

Is anyone surprised we are taking Beckett on an educational trip already?

Learning from My Dad

I read in Bringing Up Boys, by Dr. James Dobson, that around age 15 months, babies begin to realize that their moms and dads are two very different creatures. (In some cases, very, very different. ;) ). From that realization until about 23 months, babies make a decision about which parent they want to be like. I'm over-simplifying, but essentially, after noticing there are differences, kids pick one and begin modeling their behavior after that parent.

Dr. Dobson's assertion is that point in their sons' lives is one of the most important times for fathers to be present and involved. I don't agree with everything the good doctor has to say, but this part is grounded in child psychology, so whether or not you buy into his political agenda, it's hard to ignore the importance of this impressionable period.

That being said, I'm really thankful for Shonn's schedule. Beckett will be 15 months next summer, when Shonn will be able to take him fishing and (likely) on the tractor. (If we wait that long.) His schedule will allow him to spend more time with Beckett throughout the year, too, since he isn't coaching. This will be really important, since B will be surrounded by hens all day, every day, between Grammy, Grandma Hild, and Casey. And, bottom line: There is only so much girl-time a guy can take before he just needs to get outside and get dirty.

So I'm thankful for Shonn's schedule, and even more thankful that he is the guy Beckett will be learning from. He's such a great guy. (Although I am sure I'll interject some female points-of-view...Like, "Oh are you sure you want to keep that fish? Poor little thing..." or "I feel so bad for the team that lost...") I guess it's obvious he needs his dad...

He's learning every day!


Friday, July 29, 2011

Milestone

Beckett didn't like tummy time for a long time, and it still isn't his favorite, but he doesn't mind it as much lately. According to What to Expect: The First Year, by the fourth month birthday, babies should be able to: "on stomach, lift head 90 degrees, laugh out loud, and follow and object in an arc about 6 inches above the face for 180 degrees (from one side of the face to the other)." The book says the "should be able to" lists fit approximately 90% of babies, as measured by the Denver Developmental Screening Tests and on the Clinical Linguistic and Auditory Milestone Scale (CLAMS). Shonn and I just read through this list last night as kind of a fun check - we aren't planning on instituting milestone drills anytime soon. The only thing on the "should be able to" list we hadn't seen yet was the 90 degree head lift, partly because we don't do as much tummy time as suggested. (An hour a day! WHAAAAT?!) But today during tummy time, look what Beckett did! (And I promise this wasn't the result of a milestone training session.)

Surprise?

Shonn says we're going somewhere this weekend, but he won't say where... Exciting! Here are my guesses:
1. Deserted island in the Caribbean;
2. Fiji;
3. Hawaii; or
4. St. Louis.
He said it was a day trip, so I guess that helps narrow down the above options. I appreciate him doing something special for us!
Here he is the day Beckett was born. What a cutie.